I'm going to keep it short, I know where they are coming from. I used to be them. When someone you care about is doing something you think is wrong and not listening to you, you get mad. None of this is surprising to me, what I find surprising and what bugs me most is the way they are acting and how one sided they are. I trusted these people with all my heart, I know their morals I know what they think they are suppose to do I know what they taught I know what they are taught in church I've been sitting there listening and studying with them for years.  So it upsets me that when something like this happens the worst comes out in them and they become the opposite of what they teach. This is what has caught me off-guard. I see them differently now, do I still love them? Yes, I don't think that will ever change and I'll always care about them, It just saddens me to see people act this way. That is all , Thanks .