I was challenged by pastor Dave Gibbon's message on relationships. Even though they may seem fine on the outside, many people suffer from a lack of connection in their relationships. He said that 90% of the relationship is made up by the usual things (spending time, hanging out) but what's the remaining 10%? That 10% is the uncomfortable, awkward things people don't like to confront their friends about (things that bug you that you're friends do, calling your friend out on something that you know is right but afraid to speak up in fear of ruining the relationship). A relationship becomes solid and complete only if the last 10% is filled and if you really value your relationship with your friends, you have to be willing to go that extra mile no matter how uncomfortable it may be.